subhed: Why I’m Glad I’m A Loyal Xangan
subsubhed: I Hope My Legacy Will Include More Than My Favorite Quotes and Wall-to-Wall Conversations
Last year at OU, I lived across the soccer fields from a big apartment complex that held a couple hundred people. Last weekend, two people died unexpectedly in that complex. And, of course, the first response by the reporter was to look for them on Facebook. If you check out that article, you’ll see that the two people were reduced to a laundry list of what they’d posted on their profiles:
“He also loved movies. He wrote that the Die Hard series, Edward Scissorhands and Ace Ventura: Pet Detective were some of his favorites. Star Wars, he wrote, wasn’t too bad, either. And he apparently couldn’t get enough of the National Geographic Channel.”
“You had such a great spirit and always made me laugh. I will miss you, one woman wrote [on the girl's wall]“.
Sorry, what?
The NYTimes published a lovely article last October about how many users don’t use the site in a serious way and post information jokingly. To take information like that seriously is simply sloppy, careless journalism.
Let’s see what would happen if I suddenly perished:
“Natalia was excited about carrying around bottles of water because New York summer was on its way for the late commuter. The Hours was one of her favorite books, she said, but she vastly preferred the last five pages to the rest of the novel. She is survived by her apparent wife, an Ohio woman, and had, at one point, cited her religion as ‘cupcakes’.”
“Deez nutz,” her sister wrote to her. “I love New Yoooooooooooooork!” a friend wrote on her wall. “And tacos.”
I suppose what I’m trying to say is that a) your Facebook profile should not be a final representation of who you were as a person and b) I’m glad I’ll have something to show for my life when all is said and done (ugh, cliches). If something should happen to me, please direct all news outlets to my Xanga, lest anyone really believe that I pray to a cupcake goddess nightly and my wall-to-wall discussions with siblings are anything worth taking seriously.